Few observations

Observation #1
Leadership, at it most fundamental is influence. Hence when you allow yourself to be influence by someone (something), you are one way or another under their leadership. It could be as subtle as heading for AN advice, or screaming together when you don't feel like but the person just did it (AT THE WRONG TIME). Leadership without character is a MENACE. Look at Hitler. Hence the next time you decide to go for advice or even choosing to mix around, perhaps, you wana think through if this person is of sound mind. Sound mind, don't just include intellectual sanity, but having some form of wisdom.

Observation #2
In any case, birds of the same feathers flock together.
Desperate people will cling on to each other.
However, when you are meant to be bird of a different breed, forcing yourself to flock with the rest will only make you stick out like a sore thumb.
And guess what, chances are, your flock with different feathers has already been talking much about you, BEHIND YOUR BACK.

Observation #3
Wisdom and speed often times don't really come hand in hand. Alot of immediate reaction, immediate as in 3seconds after something have happen is simply reflex. Some with deep waters are able to react rationally with poise. Others, simply shoot things of their mouth. And that reflects the amount of junk stored deep within that very empty soul. Actually not so empty, since it's already filled with junk. DUH.

Observation #4
Dealing with the aestheticsof physical apperance is often a dangerous thing. Especially one decide to be so ahead of time. Do it right you are fashion forward, do it wrong you are simply a joke. If karl lagerfeld get in wrong at times. I guess I'll learn to have grace on the few whom I saw recently, making their fashion statement inspired from "Journey to the West".

Observation #5
I am a introvert.
An introspect and a retrospect.
I spend many parts of the day, thinking and evaluating the things I have done. What does that imply? Should I make a boo boo, I will spend many many days cringing over it. Should there be a mistake done, I will spend more than once repenting over it.
And...
chances are you will catch me smiling at myself. =)
coz I am laughing at you.
haha!

Observation #6
My grammar is abysmal
Since my primary school days, despite relatively high English grades, my grammar SUCKS.
The few times when essays get super high marks were the time, when teachers don't mark me on my grammar.
Hence I strongly suspect, my downfall in A levels(or any cambridge exams) could very well be due to my bad grammar.
Yet I recognise that this could be an essential part of God creating me to be uniquely oxymoronic.

I like things to be nice and neat, but have no gift of adminstration to organise them.
I like sports but often too lazy to move
I read fashion mags and checkout runways, but my I prefer to be more understated when it comes to dressing, in layman terms, I am very boring.
I love language and according to my teachers writes pretty well, but my grammar SUCKS.
of coz the list above is not exhaustive but I believe, I made my point. =)